
Ah, prom. The name itself can make anyone give a faint sigh by reminiscing their experience, or it could quickly go in the opposite direction with pouts of dissatisfaction alluding to the hype of the event. Regardless of emotions attached to the word, prom still remains the pinnacle of every teenage girl’s fantasy. It’s really all the same, every girl pictures themselves entering the room dressed to the nines and holding on to that special someone ready for an evening of bliss likening to a John Hughes movie.
Well, not to burst the dream bubble, but prom nights are hardly anything like the fantasy teenage flicks in theaters. Throw in a bit of drama between dates, the stretch hummer limo becomes a senior citizen transport van, and the after party is anything but glorious and you’ve got yourself a good ol’ traditional evening. Don’t get me wrong, I loved prom, (all five) but I guess any individual can see I am just very realistic looking back on it all.
During high school the hunt for a dress becomes the lunch table talk for two months, possible arm candy for the night is debated back in December, and who will be in charge of throwing the legendary after party is chosen with high respect. Boys began asking the girls as their dates as if they were being featured on a reality show on MTV. Dressing up in monkey suits, decorating individual cupcakes with the words “Will you go to prom with me,” and tossing a softball blazoning the awkward question were all tactics used by my grade. (Good job boys)
Picking the flashiest wheels to roll up in, hastily running to make pre-prom photos and ending the night with a cheesy slow dance to “Don’t Wanna Miss a Thing” can accurately sum up anyones experience the past ten years. Fortunately, I made it through each event with a few simple (but beautiful) dresses, fun dates and a (somewhat early) party night to begin catching for softball practice the next day. To sum it all up, I wouldn’t change a thing. Those experiences define my idea of prom to this day. So when a few our of Belgian friends asked if we would like to join the Criminology Prom, of course we said yes.
In spite of last years dead turnout, the Crimen faculty was hoping to create the perfect balance of a fun and stylish evening. Of course, the usual group of three Americans came together to relive our prom dreams. Fashioned in put -together outfits, we walked to the pre-party under the lights of the Central Library. Teetering on heels among ankle breaking cobble stones, the group gathered in a wine cellar promising free bubbly for an hour. With three glasses in our hands (pinky fingers were up of course) our group attempted to look classy while indulging in the prosciutto wrapped fruit and honey glazed brie with pine nuts. Of course all the while we began taking awkward prom photos; setting ourselves in the poses with hands on the hips of our fake dates.


Ironically, it was like the three of us were transported right back into senior year of high school. The event was held in a Hotel ball room complete with a bar and DJ spinning through a top forty playlist. There was even the crazy kid from class, roaming through the dance floor stamping people like a librarian with an imprint of the thumb’s up sign from Facebook.
Although I wasn’t wearing the perfect dress, rolling up in the coolest ride or cheering with the famous “American red cups” (they’re considered to be very cool in Europe) I had a fantastic time sharing in my “adult” prom with new friends. It also didn’t hurt that I ended up with a perfect date to end the evening.
